I’ve never blogged before. My best friend Cybil says it’s easy. But Cybil has a syndicated column. Read all over the world. Writing comes easily to her. Me? Well, I’m a matchmaker (in Manhattan).
I know, I know, you’re thinking hunched back old woman in dark kerchief, (a la Fiddler on the Roof), but you couldn’t be more wrong. In today’s mobile and disenfranchised society the modern matchmaker is a necessary evil. You see, I think it all boils down to one intrinsic fact: Like attracts like.
It’s really that simple. To build a long lasting marriage it’s important that core values be similar. As well as environmental factors, like where someone grew up, what their financial situation is, where they went to school, etc, etc…
Although there are exceptions, most successful marriages are based on constants. Things that contribute to our psyche that only someone else with like experiences can understand. It’s not foolproof of course, but I find that it’s pretty much a sure thing.
Why most people seem to miss this little tidbit I have no idea, but I guess I should be grateful as their ignorance is the reason I now sport rather sizable bank account.
You see, I believe that at the end of the day, marriage is a merger. An agreement by two parties to enter into a binding contract that will yield dividends for both. It’s a zero sum game with the underlying goal of propagating the species, and the overwhelming desire for a controlled form of intimacy. It’s been that way since the beginning of time. Unfortunately, somewhere along the way, we got a little sidetracked.
And it’s my job to get us back on line.
So that’s me in a nutshell. And I suppose, it’s also my first blog. Go me. (Or something to that effect.)
— ‘til next time!